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Pets and the Afterlife
Is there life after life for the pets we love and who pass on? Is there a heaven for our pets? Where do they go when they die? How do we know they are all right? These are the questions that vex our souls. These are the questions I'm asked, often through the tears of the heartbroken. We can take comfort in a moment between Pope Francis and a young boy who was weeping in a corner during a papal visit. Pope Francis reached out to him and asked why he was crying. The child, thro
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
May 6
The Anatomy of A Pet Grief Healing Circle
It’s Sunday, 1:00 p.m., and it’s time for the Animal Talks Healing Circle. The Zoom room opens quietly. A chime. Then another. Donna signs in from Chicago, adjusting her glasses. Josephine joins from the Philippines, the light behind her soft and warm. Mark appears from Philadelphia, already holding a mug he won’t drink from. There are about ten of us today. Sometimes more. Sometimes less. Each one arrives carrying something invisible but heavy. I welcome them. I take a momen
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
May 1
Veterinarians and the Shattered Heart
Dear Beloved Veterinarian, Our hearts are with you. You are at an increased risk of suicide, and female veterinarians even more so. You are 3.5 times more likely, and male veterinarians are 2.1 times as likely, to die from suicide as the general population. Notably, 75% of percent of the veterinarians who died by suicide worked in a small animal practice. Which is very likely how you practice. And, you’re painfully aware that to the pet parent whose pet you just euthan
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Apr 22
When a Child Experiences the Loss of a Beloved Pet...
For many children, the death of a beloved pet is their very first experience with loss. A child may meet their animal companion at four or five years old… and grow up with them through the most formative years of life. By thirteen or fourteen, that dog, cat, rabbit, or bird is no longer “just a pet.” They are siblings. A best friend. A constant presence. A quiet confidant who has been there through everything. They shared a childhood. They grew up side by side. And then, that
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Apr 2
Do Dogs Hold Grudges?
I’m not sure, but the question has come up a few times, and very recently from Kelly in Iowa. Some people say, ”No they don't or can't because of limitations in thought, the “thinking process,” while others are sure they do! Marc Bekoff, perhaps the country’s leading ethnologist, reported that when a random 20 people were asked, ten said ,”Yes, they do hold grudges.” And ten said “No, they don’t” or “Maybe not.” We think of our animal companions, especially our dogs, as gi
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Mar 20
Navigating Grief as a Spiritual Journey Instead of a Mental Health Struggle
Grief often feels like a heavy burden, something to be fixed or overcome quickly. Many people approach grief as a mental health issue, seeking therapy or medication to manage symptoms. While mental health support can be valuable, grief itself is deeply rooted in the spiritual experience of loss and meaning. Understanding grief as a spiritual challenge opens new paths for healing that go beyond clinical treatment. This perspective invites us to explore grief as a journey of th
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Mar 19
Understanding Pet Loss Support Systems
Losing a pet is one of the most heart-wrenching experiences we can face. Pets are more than animals; they are family members, companions, and sources of unconditional love. When they pass away, the grief can feel overwhelming and isolating. I have walked this path myself, and I know how important it is to find support that truly understands the depth of this loss. That’s why I want to share what I’ve learned about pet loss support systems—how they work, why they matter, and h
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Mar 17
Practical Pet Grief Counseling Methods
Losing a pet is one of the most heart-wrenching experiences we can face. Our pets are more than animals; they are companions, confidants, and family members. When they pass, the grief can feel overwhelming and isolating. I want to share some practical pet grief counseling methods that have helped many find comfort and healing. These techniques are gentle, compassionate, and designed to support you through this difficult time. Understanding Pet Grief Counseling Methods Grief c
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Mar 17
Understanding Effective Pet Grief Counseling Techniques
Losing a beloved pet is one of the most heart-wrenching experiences we can face. The bond we share with our furry friends is deep and unique. When they pass, the grief can feel overwhelming and isolating. I have walked this path myself and learned that healing is possible with the right support. Pet grief counseling offers a gentle way to navigate these emotions. In this post, I want to share some effective pet grief counseling techniques that can help soothe your heart and g
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Mar 2
Here For the Last Walk and Purr: A Journey Through Grief
A Heartfelt Reflection on Loss To all of us who have gone through this agony—and will again. She is still so beautiful. Too beautiful for this room. Her eyes are open—not seeing, not sleeping, just there, holding the last light. This is the last time. But was it the right time? A day too soon? A day too late? My body knows before my mind does. I’m dizzy. The chill deepens. Time slows, stops. “Stay,” says my heart! “No—go,” says my mind. It’s too much for you; you cannot bear
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Feb 1
Will I Meet My Pet Again In Heaven?
Life After Life For Our Pets
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Sep 25, 2025
When You Lose a Loved One, You Lose Your Mind
You Can Really Lose Yiur Mind In Grief
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Feb 19, 2025
Are Lost Cats Really Lost?
So many notices on telephone poles on neighborhood web site and all around the “hood” about lost cats! It may come as a huge surprise to...
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Oct 16, 2020
How To Stop A Barking Dog?
Good question. One I hear enough to concern and interest me. So I did a little research, especially seeking the opinion of Dr. Marc Bekoff. Dr. Bekoff is probably the country’s leading ethologist, and somewhat of a hero to me. The answer to the question is simple: Why even stop a barking dog? Unless you can get inside the dog’s mind and heart and know why she is barking. Dogs are incredible beings. They see the world in ways we never will. Their intelligence, social structu
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Oct 1, 2020
Are Teddy Bears Real? Talks With My Teddy Bear
I believe most parents have stumbled upon, and treasured, moments like these: Their kids are having tea with their “stuffed animals,” chatting away in very sweetly, very naturally. In a real conversation. Maybe the child is teaching the alphabet to a bright-eyed, attentive, eager Teddy, or a floppy-eared puppy. And there is no doubt whatsoever that the bear and child understand each other completely. In a language that exists only for them. Is it possible that these funny an
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Oct 1, 2020
I Don’t Want Another Dog! I Want The One I Had
...my family and “friends” just keep saying things like “just get another dog,” or she’s better off where she is,”...
Rev. Kaleel Sakakeeny
Sep 25, 2020
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